Love to start with picture, also through an air-conditioned prism of inexpensive alcohol, purple lighting and guys leering and cheering, is easy to track down in Bangkok’s bars.

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Thanks for visiting Thailand’s raucous yet remarkably nice, West-meets-East sex industry, which breaks hearts on both sides. ‘fall-in crave, never fall-in really love’ is actually a frequent caution. Acting becoming the idealised sweetheart – all coos and kisses, giggles and gaga-eyes – a Thai club lady allows a man to believe he is a dazzlingly debonair, undiscovered celebrity.

‘Where otherwise can a classic guy go to bed with an attractive 20-year-old lady?’ one senior Brit questioned me with a gleam in the wrinkled eyes. ‘Would they love it? Then?’ he chuckled. ‘we outlay cash sufficient.’

The Thai bar ladies we interviewed stated British guys are usually the the majority of courteous. In place of haggling about rates and jobs – which some foreign people would – Brits may as an alternative ask should they would merely always spend evening together.

Many visitors go back home using the mind of an adventure or accident off their Thailand trysts, limited minority of foreign guys perform belong really love, often for all your completely wrong reasons, including a delusional aspire to ‘rescue’ a girl, even though the man eventually turns out to be the only wanting a life-saver.

Worst-case scenarios include males whom acknowledge they poured a lot of their own cost savings into getting a house for their beloved, simply to discover that she was actually privately hitched to a Thai just who helped the girl lock in the land ownership files, leaving the non-native to consider pity or suicide. Best-case romances enable ladies to leave the grimy taverns and grim HIV research, and establish their unique potential as a wife, mama or employee.

Each coupling provides an original story, with ladies stating they believe in their own international men, and innocently marrying into what might or might not end up being a happy-ever-after existence in Britain or in other places.

Other girls became thus jaded that when an upbeat admirer proposes to get them a drink, they’re going to include his details to their database after which squeeze around up to they could, while whispering whatever he desires notice.


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Richard S Ehrlich is the Bangkok-based co-author and co-photographer, combined with Dave Walker, of a book of investigative journalism titled ‘Hello My personal Big Big Honey! Love Letters to Bangkok Bar Ladies and Their Revealing Interviews’